The definition of a “Muse” is a woman, or a force personified as a woman, who is the source of inspiration. Being an inspiration is something that comes as a gift to some. Often a muse doesn’t even realize how they do what they do but it is appreciated at times none the less. Some people miss out on the gift of being around this person but those who embrace it and allow it are rewarded in the end.
A muse is not meant to be in your life forever. They are meant to be put in your life to assist with a tough time or a block in your life. They can in time become a great friend but you will need to take control of what they show you and allow them to just be there to guide from time to time. A true muse will only help as long as you are open to their gift. Open your eyes and your heart to what these people are here to help you through in the moment but be ready to be strong enough in time to take control of your life and allow them to just enjoy the rewards along side you or move on to help those who need them more than you do now.
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An amusing muse about muses to muse over.
/ˈmjuːzɨz/ (Ancient Greek: Μοῦσαι Mousai; perhaps from the o-grade of the Proto-Indo-European root *men- “think”)
I have known a few in my lifetime. Some have been just as you said to me. Others I observed them aid those we knew. But in every case, the person has to be receptive or the benefit is wasted and the muse moves on. I may have to research if they have male counterparts of any sort. One thing is for certain, this blog post did inspire me to edit the Wikipedia page about the Muses.
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Thank you and I would love to be kept posted on your findings. I am glad to inspire even in the smallest of ways. 🙂
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I believe I am a muse, as I keep doing what you describe in your text as to be a muse. But why do muse feel used in their own real relationship, like in marriage? Its so sad. Thanks all the same for the info about a muse.
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Usually that happens when the Muse becomes an enabler! Then they believe that is all they are put on this earth for and they mistake it for love and end up with someone who doesn’t appreciate them! Be strong and require the respect in return! Love yourself so that others can love you!
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