Don’t depend on others to determine your positivity. If you need guidance you need to look within yourself or do the work to find it elsewhere. In a world where it is easier to find flaws and pain if you rely on others you will all too often get sucked unwillingly into the mix. The only way to live a truly positive life is to find the positives amongst the negatives. Remember that it can all too often be much worse than you can ever imagine and usually much worse than you have it now. Open your eyes to life and search deep for the diamond inside that dark coal. Positivity is your Diamond being created under the pressure of the Negativity of Coal.