Recently I came to a realization I have at least 3 sides of me and have learned to embrace them individually. There’s Vicklyn who is the Intellectual, Vixen is the Adventurous/Sensual, and then there is Vix. Vix is the one that keeps the other two in check. She keeps the peace and analyzes situations to determine which of the other two is best to handle a situation.
If we all learn to embrace all sides of ourselves and learn to pull from the strengths of each when required we are very powerful. Learn your strengths and your weaknesses. Don’t be afraid to open yourself to all the possibilities of YOU. Remember to feed all sides of YOU and they will work together to make YOU, the Perfect YOU. 🙂
You have to believe in yourself and when you are living a Positive Fulfilled Life there will be others who wish they had what you have. Those will at times do whatever it takes to tear you down instead of building themselves up. ~Vix~
Ever feel like you are swimming upstream against the current? We all have those times in our lives but the key is to keep swimming and keeping your eyes open for those calm areas in the river of life that you can rest a bit before you continue your journey. Never forget the fight is worth the reward of meeting your destination. The struggles, will in time, strengthen you.
When you take pride in yourself you take pride in those around you. It all starts by looking in the mirror and deciding if you are truly proud of the person you see. Pride is something that starts within you. You can’t control anyone but yourself, be proud of your actions and those around you will see the pride. ~Vix~
Sometimes we have to accept that we are too close to a problem to fix it and we have to step away and let those more experienced do what is best. ~Vix~
Life can be hazy at times but when the haze clears it is truly amazing the things
you couldn’t see before. Don’t just look down or in front of you, be sure to look UP…
The sky is the limit and you have to reach through the clouds at times.
Have only one “Accepted” Negative in your life…
Your Negative feelings toward Negativity!!!! ~Vix~
Our Roots are what keeps us grounded or makes us vulnerable. It is up to you if baring them is going to strengthen you or if it will become a weakness. You can dig deeper and search for your strength down deep inside or you can a can just sit back and watch them wither and get weak. What do you choose?
As we put an end to 2014 we open the new door to 2015. I look back on this last year and am so blessed for all that has happened. The positives and the negatives have all had the role in making it a great year of memories. I had a lot of lessons learned for myself. Writing this blog has truly opened my world to the positives that I have in my life. When I started this blog the end of 2013 I really wasn’t sure what I was wanting from it so I just started writing. I know there are times that people don’t agree with things I write and there are some Posts that really impact people and make a difference. Those positives and negatives have taught me so much about myself and about how to relate to others. We will never all see things exactly the same, but I know now that we all need to learn to step back and accept those around us for our differences. Those differences don’t have to be a negative if you find how they can be a positive for you. If the negative is not healthy for you, never forget you have the right to stand up and say, “No more, this is not how I choose to live my life.” We all have a choice, we just have to acknowledge that and stand up for it. You can’t achieve your goals of your future if you are stuck in the negativity of your past. Time for New Beginnings…Make your 2015 the Best Year of YOUR Life to date!! HUGS ~Vix~