I have been doing a lot of personal analysis on my past recently during my ultimate healing process.  I realized that I seemed to have a lot of the same personalities around me.  Most of which become habits that I am having a hard time breaking.  I have a “Fixer” personality and I tend to want to help everyone I can.  This can become a negative when a majority of the people are broken themselves. I realized this is an unhealthy habit as these people are broken in their own way.  Old Habits are tough to break. In order to break them you have to truly recognize them and want to let them go. You may not even realize you are doing something until it is too late and then you sit back and notice the comparison to things you had done in the past. The goal is that once you recognize the pattern you address it and check what you can or get away from it completely if that is what is necessary.