When you stop worrying about how others think of you and just live a happy positive life that you can be proud of, the rest falls into place. Be what your heart and conscience tells you. That doesn’t mean go out and be immoral, it means to think positivity when making your choices.  Love yourself for the person you have inside not what those percieve you to be by reputation.  If you don’t like how others see you, change the view. 🙂