When you are an adult you have the right to decide who you have sex with.  It is no one but you and the person you choose to be with’s business.  Be smart and safe, but at the end of the day it is between the two of you.  Why do we as a society make people feel shame for wanting to be consenting adults whether it is for one night or for the rest of your life.  We all should feel the freedom to make these choices on our own and not feel guilty when we do.  Just be sure to have an open line of communication with the person you are engaging in sex with and be sure to take proper precautions to be safe.  There are various types of sex so if you are comfortable with sharing yourself to someone…Damn it that is your choice.  At the end of the day, enjoy the moment but don’t regret your choice after.  If it wasn’t what you expected then it isn’t what you expected. Move on and make the next choice a better on.  When you are an adult you have to make your own decisions in life, don’t allow society to tell you what is right. Dig deep inside yourself and I believe you will know what it right and if you choose wrong you learn from it.  Have fun and live life without shame and regrets.  Sex is healthy and holding it back is not always good. I jokingly say, “DSB (Deadly Sperm Buildup) kills” so be sure to find your release.  Women, you may not have sperm but I think you know it is not just a guy thing. 🙂