I am a huge component of Constructtive Criticism. There is a difference between Constructive Criticism and Descructive Criticism. The root of those Adjectives tell a lot about the intent of the Criticism.  Constructive is exactly that, intent is to build up. Where as Destructive does the exact opposite, it is intended to tear down the one receiving the feedback.  Now think about those two words a bit and tell me which would you rather be the recipient of. Personally I am pushing for much more CONSTRUCTION in this world.  We need to be building one another up instead of tearing each other down.  Choose your words wisely. Maybe even say them to yourself before to others. Listen for yourself how the words make you feel.  Do they make you feel like you want to try making the change or do they just make you sad or even angry?  Let’s work on building each other up and building a more positive society.