Don’t complain about something if you aren’t going to do everything you can to make it better.  If you continuously complain about the same things and don’t take the steps to try anything available to correct the problem then it’s not the problem that is the problem, it’s you!!  Stop saying you don’t like something about yourself or your surroundings unless you have tried everything to make them different.  It is easy to just complain about things we don’t like but it take real strength to take a stand and decide we are going to make a change and search out all possible ways to fix the problem.  Don’t give up until you have really tried everything you possibly can to change the problem on your own and then start asking for help.  Nothing is impossible if you truly search for the answers.  Never give up on what you truly want or need in your life!