I’m done living life to make others happy.  This is my life to live.  No one else has to be involved unless they choose to accept my choices and come along with me.  If you aren’t onboard and don’t agree with my choices well guess what…We can agree to disagree and go our separate ways.

There is nothing wrong with acknowledging that you have out-grown relationships or passions.  Our tastes change every seven years so it is very likely that you will grow away from some things and some people in your life.  The healthiest way to handle this is to accept it. Remember that we don’t have to please everyone around us with our decisions.  The only person in our lives we truly have to make happy is ourselves.

Now, I know some are going to say this is the most selfish way to live our lives and I just say, “Ok! And?” From the day we are born to the day we die the one person we have with us always is ourselves and the moment you realize you have to come first, you will start your journey to self-love.  This in no way is to say that we need to be greedy, self-centered, or self-absorbed, but we have to be in touch with who we are as people and what our true likes and dislikes are in order to attract like minded individuals into our lives.