This one is for my fellow Control Freaks of the World…We have to STOP trying to Control The World and focus on Controlling Ourselves.  By having to be in control at all times we sabotage our futures.  We have to learn to let things work out as they are intended and not have to make them happen.  I have had some experiences lately that have opened my eyes to this and I may have sabotaged some potentially great things for my future by doing it.  All I can do now is take these experiences and learn from them and in return share this knowledge with you. Having the world in the palm of our hand is not the same as controlling it.  We need to focus our minds on what it is we truly desire and allow that to happen and not force it to happen.  Key here is to “Allow” your future!!

When it comes to relationships I think sometimes we want someone to like us so badly, we become something completely opposite of who we are. Then what we often realize is, we run that person off because we are now not who that person was initially attracted to. Once you cross that line it is very hard to take that back.  All we can do is take a step back, look at what has happened and learn from that and say to ourself, “I am me and I need to stop trying so hard to make things happen. You are not always able to control the outcome. Accept that and enjoy the ride.  No matter how quick or slow it is.”  I hope that by acknowledging the mistake you can resurrect the real you and remember in the future that you can not Control The World…You Can Only Control Yourself!!