We have so much to learn from the stories of others.  If you haven’t told yours there is someone out there waiting to hear it.  We may believe we are alone and that no one would possibly want to hear our story but in actually there are others going through things that are similar to what we have and they can learn from us.  If you are keeping your story secret you are hurting yourself as things that get buried that are still alive will only dig their way out and often won’t be happy for being buried alive.  We have so much to learn from each other and learning from others stories can potentially help us to uncover our own.