I have this theory of déjà vu.  I believe before we are born we are shown many “moments” in our life that we will eventually reach.  These moments will happen at some point in our lives but it is truly our choice how we get to them.  I see it like a clam shell of sorts.  The base of the shell is the point we are trying to reach and every time we reach that moment we are given a flash of the memory as a way to know we have reached that moment.  Each time we have this flash we are then given the choice of “roads” to take to get to the next one.  You are basically standing at the top of the clam shell with many choices of roads to take.  Some are shorter with a few bumps in the road and some are longer but no matter which road you chose at that moment, you are inevitably going to reach that “moment”.  Have you ever noticed that sometimes you have déjà vu within days of each other and other times you don’t have one for years? I believe that is because the shorter road was chosen and you made it to that”moment” quicker than if you were to have taken a longer road.  We all have choices in life.  It is up to us what roads we take. Even when bad things happen to us we chose if those things will destroy us or if they will make us stronger.  Chose your road and remember there is a great moment to come, you just have to be sure you chose wisely and get there the best way you can.  Even the long roads can be the fun ones if you enjoy the journey. Never regret choices you have made.  Learn from your mistakes and grow from them.