When you are in a relationship and you trust your partner but want to spice things up a bit, you have got to discuss the option of role play with your partner. The level of role play you take on is totally up to the two of you. It must be understood and agreed upon up front that the detail of this time is never to be discussed with anyone but the two of you.  This is how trust is built and how freedom is established.  Role Play can be used as a way to enhance the intimacy and explore each other’s inner fantasies. It is a time where each of you can find out the thoughts that pass through each other’s minds.  Now this means that as women you have to be understanding and accepting of the ideas, but it does not mean you have to participate if you are not both comfortable.  The lines of communication must be opened first.  You should each sit down together and talk about your basic fantasies to start off with.  These are the things you try first to start to build the trust and open the lines of communication. As you both get more and more comfortable you can start to get a little more adventurous, but remember it has to be something that you are both comfortable with before you try it.  It has to be a time to bond and explore not just fulfill the other partner’s fantasy.  Especially in the beginning.  You need to agree and then gradually expand together as you are both comfortable and confident.  Role Play is a great tool to use when you get to a point in your relationship when you are taking each other for granted or not taking the time for one another.  You can plan a date night to start off with and meet one another at a restaurant, a bar, a park, etc. and meet there as though it is the first meeting and flirt and pick each other up.  Make it exciting.  Fuel that fire that you should have inside of you, no matter how deep.  If you don’t have that you will have to build it.  A healthy relationship has fire and passion.  Don’t take one another for granted and make sure you tell one another regularly what it is that draws you to them.  A person needs to hear the good things and by role playing you are able to show one another what you want and make it fun.